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  Simple Question:Why Won’t JWs Just Report Child Abuse As The Law Requires?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i just don’t get it.

  it would make their life so much easier!.

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  the girl next door

  I know personally elders that have made anonymous calls on alleged abuse to law enforcement even before a call to Bethel is made by the committee.

  A witch hunt begins amongst the BOE but like all well trained elders know, deny, deny, deny, usually works well.

  These instances are probably still rare, but I don’t think it is too far fetched to assume they may become more frequent.

  WT is always moving away from protecting individual elders legally and elders are becoming wary of putting their own necks on the chopping block in a court of law and the monetary demands it takes for litigation.
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  Why can JW's attend funerals or weddings in a church?

  by QuestioningEverything in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  what is the reasoning/policy behind the practice that a jw can't attend an event such as funeral or wedding in another church?

  i know of someone that didn't attend her older sisters funeral because it was held in a baptist church.

  she waited outside until the service was over and then went to the family dinner afterwards.

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  the girl next door

  Because if Armageddon comes right then you’re going to die as fire and sulfur rain down upon all churches in Christendom.

  It is one of those “conscience matters” where JWs are all over the map on it.

  Some choose to go in because they don’t want to piss off family and the family realize JWs are assholes.

  Some don’t want to stumble their brothers and sisters in the congregation if they were to find out.

  The stance to not enter probably comes from statements like the following from the WT.

  W70 3/15:
  

  Thus there is no need for a Christian to feel obligated to go to a church funeral of another religious organization, where there may be the temptation to give in to pressure and follow the crowd when everyone else is performing some false religious act. Thus also the danger of performing an act of apostasy and displeasing Jehovah God can be avoided. But each one must decide for oneself on the basis of circumstances and one?s own conscience.

  Yeah. When it’s in print expressed this way militant JWs make it hard and fast rule.
  
  
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  Simple Question:Why Won’t JWs Just Report Child Abuse As The Law Requires?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i just don’t get it.

  it would make their life so much easier!.

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  the girl next door

  Hundreds of boys went to prison because of Watchtower policy on conscientious objectors which could have been prevented.

  Hundreds died because of their blood transfusion policies that are ever changing.

  Hundreds have taken their own lives because of the fallout of being disfellowshipped.

  Hundreds more children have had their minds imprisoned because of Watchtower’s policy for child sex abuse.

  This organization doesn’t give a shit about abuses individuals suffer because of its policy.
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  Simple Question:Why Won’t JWs Just Report Child Abuse As The Law Requires?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i just don’t get it.

  it would make their life so much easier!.

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  the girl next door

  First, because they believe they have authority to investigate the legitimacy of allegations under an archaic 2000 year old “two witnesses” policy.

  Second, convictions in criminal courts bolster civil litigations which costs WT money.

  Not every location mandates reporting. Where it is not they won’t. Even where reporting is mandated they do not do it with full transparency. Elders may be instructed to contact law enforcement anonymously.

  Immediate reporting would benefit local elders. It does not benefit the WT organization.

  Their goal is not to spend money and they use outdated theological gymnastics to justify their silence. In addition to not paying out on lawsuits, those donations keep rolling in from the publishers, because the publishers also believe the WT policy on CSA is justified.
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  Why Do People Hate Jews???

  by minimus in

  1. jw
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  i have never understood anti-semitism .why sooo much hatred?.

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  Asylum Caravan

  by dubstepped in

  1. social
  2. current

  alright, so what is the deal with the thousands coming to the states right at election time seeking asylum?

  i'm not up on this, usually try not to be, but how can this not be manipulative?

  it's either manipulative in the size of the group and pressure that creates, or in where it started or who started this, etc.

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  the girl next door

  The United States has accommodated 20% of the world’s immigrants.

  Its time to hang out the no vacancy signs.
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  Alec Baldwin Punches A Guy Over Parking Spot

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  he got into a fight with someone over a parking spot and popped him good enough to get arrested in nyc.

  geez, maybe robert deniro was the other guy.

  i’m waiting for a skit on saturday night live regardling this!.

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  the girl next door

  He will pay a $1000 fine, a few hundred for fees and restitution and avoid probation by throwing $50k at an attorney.

  His status as a douchbag remains.

  But damn he plays a good Trump.
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  Asylum Caravan

  by dubstepped in

  1. social
  2. current

  alright, so what is the deal with the thousands coming to the states right at election time seeking asylum?

  i'm not up on this, usually try not to be, but how can this not be manipulative?

  it's either manipulative in the size of the group and pressure that creates, or in where it started or who started this, etc.

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  the girl next door

  $110,000,000 to cover deployment of 15,000 troops.

  Who will not be shooting at anything.

  Who will be setting up tents, constructing bunk beds, installing electrical and plumbing, air conditioners, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry, passing out decks of cards.

  Does anyone else see the madness?
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  Asylum Caravan

  by dubstepped in

  1. social
  2. current

  alright, so what is the deal with the thousands coming to the states right at election time seeking asylum?

  i'm not up on this, usually try not to be, but how can this not be manipulative?

  it's either manipulative in the size of the group and pressure that creates, or in where it started or who started this, etc.

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  the girl next door

  How can it possibly be a myth that illegal immigration is a social burden?

  Did you not read above what I posted as far as the expenditures made just detaining the children?

  There are currently @ 2,400 children still in the detainment process costing the government nearly 60 million dollars per month.

  I do not think these stats are biased because they have been generated by advocates for these children. Likely to get them out of the tents and into the fields, or school, or with therapists and social workers.

  Guess what? All that costs millions of dollars too.

  I know starving citizens, families living right here in Los Angeles.

  I’m certain that is something common throughout the nation.

  If we cannot help destitute citizens, why are we spending millions in detaining illegals?

  Trump is determined to detain many many more.

  All that cost; tents, air conditioning, beds, linens, food, water, medicines, court, on and on, being spent on illegal immigrants by a country that can’t help it’s own starving citizens, is a social burden.

  There is only one way to solve it. Nobody comes in until we get a handle on our own citizen plights.
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  February 2018 Watchtower - Addressing abuse Victims

  by Listener in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  there's a preview note on one of the articles in this newly released watchtower.

  the note can be found on an article titled "part 1 of 4 love and justice in ancient israel".the note states -.

  this article is the first in a series of four that will discuss why we can be sure that jehovah cares about us.

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  the girl next door

  Until they drop their two witness rule in cases of child sex abuse and actively, transparently report every allegation of child sex abuse to the police immediately upon discovery, they can shove their bullshiting attempt to look like they care through flowery honey dripping words in their trash magazine straight up their ass.